Something to Own – Why your story matters Jul 27, 2021
Michelle Obama, in her memoir Becoming, speaks to the profound power of knowing our own story. Reflecting on her parents, she writes:
“Together they helped me see the value in our story, in my story, in the larger story of our country. Even when it is not pretty or perfect and when it’s more real than you want it to be. Your story is what you have. What you will always have. It’s something to own.”
At Inicio Albums, we believe in that same sentiment. Your story — with all its beauty, its grit, its quiet, everyday moments — is something to hold onto. It’s not about dwelling in the past, but about understanding how the past shapes the present and inspires the future. After all, your story is still unfolding. And you have the power to create the next chapter.
The Power of Capturing a Life in Progress
Recording your family’s story year by year isn’t just about preserving memories — it’s a meaningful act of creation. It helps shape a deeper sense of identity: Who are we? What do we value? What do we hope for?
When we capture moments — both ordinary and extraordinary — we begin to see our families as evolving, growing, and beautifully imperfect. A “work in progress,” just as we are meant to be. Sometimes, that starts with something as simple as a message written on a rock. Or a photo lovingly placed in an album sleeve.

Beyond the Digital Shoebox
As Bernard Salt, a columnist for The Weekend Australian Magazine, once wrote, “I realised that following the introduction of digital cameras in the early 2000s we were in danger of losing continuity of our family’s photographic record.” With thousands of images stored across phones, computers and clouds, the act of curating — of choosing which moments to hold on to — is being lost.
He worried that future generations might find only fragments: “the odd pic that for some reason was printed.” And in doing so, they might miss the bigger picture of who we were, what we loved, and how we lived.
The magic of a physical album is that it brings together “life’s best bits” in one place. It invites grandparents and grandchildren to sit side-by-side, turning pages, laughing at old fashions, pointing out family members “from back then.” It connects generations in a way that digital images on a screen rarely can.
A Personal Story: Making the Past More Present
A few years ago, I digitised around 100 old family slides as a gift for my mother’s birthday. As a child, I adored our “slide nights” — when the whole family would crowd around the projector, reliving memories through flickering images.
Sitting with my mother in her nursing home, watching those same images again on a television screen, I saw my childhood through new eyes. Being one of eight, I had always felt like I barely appeared in those photos. But this time, I saw enough. Enough to remember the beach holidays, the Christmas chaos, the squabbles over who got the window seat in the back of the station wagon.
But even more than those digitised slides, it was the process of carefully selecting a few special images for my family album — and writing down why they mattered — that brought me the most joy. The reflections. The little insights into how those moments shaped who I am today.
Writing With Gratitude
Looking back, I now see a rich and layered story. Not perfect. Not without hardship. But full of meaning.
That’s the gift these albums offer. They invite us to tell our story — not just in photos, but in our own words. They help us find gratitude, even in the messiness. They show us how far we’ve come.
And they become something truly powerful to pass on — not just to our children, but to theirs.
In Part 2 of this blog, I’ll share a piece of my grandfather’s story — how it taught me about resilience, about values, and about the strength we can find in knowing where we come from.
Until then, may you take a moment to honour your story. It’s something worth owning.